For all intents and purposes, my marriage ended three years ago; we hadn't spent a day apart since Jan. '92.
I blame a poor economy, a bad city government, and an abusive woman heading for a meeting with Nemisis.
My ex worked for the government for the city in which I play politics. He had two bosses. The one he worked beneath would punish him based on the things the other boss said. That second boss was abusive. Working in a hostile work environment, he got depressed and stopped talking to me. He has gained over 100 pounds since being fired.
The city started harassing us. He was badmouthed to the point he couldn't get a job. Stupid Seigfried, knowing that her hubby was in an occupation in finance and needed a clean credit score, let her hubby run up her credit cards in his bid to find another job.
His abusive boss made up crap about Siegfred in the unemployment hearing and blamed her for getting her ex fired. That only made his inability to speak to his wife more pronounced. He also was so emotional he couldn't defend himself in the unemployment hearing - he lost and the family lost out on income based on the lies of his former boss.
Siegfried has the court transcripts*, that is how she knows every single lie that was said in that hearing and who said them.
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The problem now is that can't afford to leave her home. He can't pay her back. She can't make enough money to pay him alimony (as he is not working a real job). She can't legalize the separation because he isn't working. She can't afford to repair her car or her home. She's been uninsured for nearly three years. She had to close out her business due to a lack of available credit and the threat of harassment directly from her ex's former boss and his former HR manager. She's trying to be creative. Sadly, she's screwed.
Three years later, she can't get her ex out of his funk. This is not good for the family.
Right before he was fired for not meeting an illegal quota, he was fined $500 by our local government as his boss said
- he had a book on his desk,
- he was using the internet inappropriately,
- and despite having a sleep disability that his boss documented, he was said to have fallen asleep on the job numerous times.
He paid the fine in cash as his boss directed. The attorney representing the city showed me a series of emails, one of which stated that this boss directed him to leave the office and retrieve my money and return within a few hours. In my mind this is illegal taxation and the city owes me $500 plus interest.
Yes, it was illegal for the city to levy this fine. Worse, the city is supposed to tell taxpayers where the money goes - they refuse to tell us what happened to our $500.
His former abusive boss later said in a transcripted hearing that she had no proof that there was a book on his desk or that he ever used the internet inappropriately*.
Today I met with people he used to work with, including his former supervisor (not the abusive one)and ...get this...that HIS FORMER SUPERVISOR NEVER CAUGHT HIM SLEEPING ON THE JOB DESPITE WHAT THAT FINE PAPERWORK* SAID!! The supervisor claimed that she was directed to fine him by the HR department. I was informed that the woman who slandered me would run around telling everyone my ex was sleeping on the job and when people went to check on him they always found him doing his work!!!
I also learned she was defaming us for a couple of years, claiming that I was abused and describing me as someone with PTSD. She claimed my ex had the equivalent of a rage disorder and liked to toss me around. I'm not joking....the lawyers repeated her crap as truth in civil proceedings yet never once alerted the victim's advocates or police to the crimes this woman claimed I endured. I've got plans to prevent this from happening again.
The city lawyers made fun of my disability and they repeated the lies the bully told even after I informed them that it wasn't the truth! That really frustrates me!
Let me repeat. My ex never fell asleep at work. I have proof. I am pissed beyond belief.
The city human resource office fined my family $500 over a woman's lies! They defamed us based on the stories of someone behaving like a freakin' psychopath. They would give out bad references based on her lies. They made us pay back the unemployment he collected based on her lies. They refused him volunteer opportunities based on her lies. They told someone who confronted me at a political function because of her lies. They wouldn't let me talk to civil servants save for the HR director for any reason. This woman and her boss lied to me about city code in an attempt to get my personal information, SSN, and other things.
They send the PD to my house at 2:00 am when I complained. I learned that the lady who defamed us was dating an officer who could pull that off.
They traumatized four children in my house because a liar had a relationship with a cop?
How in the heck does something like this happen?
I have a plan.
First off, I am filing a complaint with the State CPA regulatory body for a violation of the code of ethics which forbids quotas in his former occupation. I may also complain about the wrong code she sent me in an attempt to force me to purchase business licenses for my hobbies.
I am prepared to use my political connections to speak to the union heads. may be conservative but if ithere is one place a union is necessary. It is here. I vow to do everything in my power to bring a union into this town. If the HR doesn't like it, then they can put the rule changes in place I asked for THREE YEARS AGO! I will be more than happy to pour through the 1,000+ pages I've collected about city policies and share them with union heads.
Enough is enough!!
And, I may need to sue to recoup the economic losses I've endured due to the lying, stalking, and abuse of my civil rights.
The retaliation suit is for stalking me, lying about me, and threatening my business. I am toying with the idea of suing the one who violated my civil rights by making me a persona non grata; he refused to let anyone talk to me about anything pertaining to city life. That makes me taxed without representation.
Defamation is for the things I've read about myself online, things that city lawyers have said about me and things five of her former co-workers said she said about my family on numerous occasions. I probably won't be able to sue for the lies she told in hearings but I can use those to show that she is less than honest. Some of the stuff I heard today is new, some of it echoes things I'd been told before. I never met the abusive boss, there is no way she could ever claim to know such intimate details about my life.
I would highly recommend her bosses tell me how they are going to prevent this from happening again and that they do it within ten days.
In the meantime, I'm going to talk to my ex about the possibility of filing a defamation lawsuit of his own. If he sues, I won't. If the city contacts changes their policies to forbid violations of Federal Wage Law and protect battered women before served with paperwork, I may reconsider. They ought to know I'm serious.
I have a lawyer who offered to take my case, I'd prefer my ex sue you. We have one year from the date I heard the latest gossip. Today I heard more.
Why in the heck would the HR manager allow employees to do such a thing to a taxpayer?
I see little recourse. I tried to warn you.
Idiots!
Can you say UNCLE?
You will...
S.
*I have a scanner and can post everything online if I feel it will make change happen sooner.
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